“Simple” Ways to Make Your Child Feel Special
Balancing attention among children is a major challenge for parents, as it requires giving each child special attention without making others feel neglected.
This attention boosts the child’s self-esteem and shapes their future identity, while neglecting it may lead to undesirable behaviors later in life, says Dr. Laura Kaufman, a psychologist.
According to Parents, here are 6 simple and effective ways to make your children feel special:
- Eye contact
Give your child your full attention when talking to them, and be fully present instead of being distracted by other things.
- Daily special time
Spend 10 uninterrupted minutes with each child daily, and let the child choose the activity.
- Engaged questions
Instead of general questions, ask your child for details about their day to show genuine interest.
- Special traditions
Create simple traditions, such as preparing a meal together or spending time doing favorite activities.
- Show affection
A hug or kiss before bedtime can enhance your child’s feeling of love.
- Share their interests
Engage in your child’s hobbies and interests to strengthen their sense of support and importance.
