How to Deal with Temper Tantrums in Children
Temper tantrums in young children are common and are a natural part of development. When they happen, it can be challenging for parents to remain calm, but keeping calm is very important.
Young children, especially those aged 1 to 4, have not yet developed the skills to control their emotions, which leads to tantrums.
According to experts, the main cause of these outbursts is the frustration of unmet desires, either due to an inability to express their needs or a desire for independence.
According to the website Parents, here’s how to handle tantrums:
- Stay calm and firm
Try to guide the child towards appropriate behavior without losing your temper.
- Understand their feelings
Acknowledge that the child may be frustrated, but do not tolerate violent behavior.
- Act calmly
Behave in a way that demonstrates calmness even during difficult moments, as children learn from the behavior of adults.
- Distract attention
Changing the activity or environment may help shift the child’s focus away from the tantrum.
- Don’t give in
Avoid bribing or giving in to the child’s demands during a tantrum, as this will reinforce negative behavior.
- Soothe the child
Sometimes a calm hug can be the perfect solution to soothe the child.
