How to Handle Your Child’s Loud Voice

19th October 2024

2 minutes read

Many parents struggle with children speaking loudly, especially in public places, where children, unconsciously, tend to raise their voices during moments of excitement or frustration. However, voice modulation is a crucial skill that children need to learn, and it requires parents to be patient and use effective educational strategies.

A child may raise their voice in certain situations, such as when feeling excited, frustrated, or when they are in new or crowded environments.

In these cases, a loud voice becomes a way to express their emotions or attract attention.

It is important to guide the child toward replacing this behavior with quieter ways of expressing their feelings or releasing energy.

Not all children understand the difference between a “loud voice” and a “quiet voice,” so they need to learn these concepts in a fun way.

Parents can use creative educational exercises, such as mimicking different voices like the “monster voice” or the “child’s voice,” to teach them when to use each type of voice. Children can also be taught to use a quiet voice in the library and a loud voice on the playground.

When does a loud voice become a health issue?

If you notice that the child frequently loses their voice or suffers from persistent hoarseness, this may be a sign of “voice misuse,” which can lead to vocal cord problems, such as the development of vocal nodules.

In such cases, it is advisable to consult an ENT specialist or a speech therapist to prevent the problem from worsening.

Strategies to Lower a Child’s Voice:

Use non-verbal cues, such as gently touching the child’s shoulder.
Put a finger on the lips as a signal to lower the voice.
Speak calmly with the child to encourage them to adjust their behavior.
Avoid yelling at the child to prevent increasing their stress.

Teaching children how to control the volume of their voices is an essential skill that contributes to their comfort and better integration into society.

With innovative educational strategies and patience from parents, children can be helped to develop this necessary skill in a healthy and effective way.