How to Prevent Your Toddler from Hitting Others
Seeing your child hit another can be an embarrassing situation, but it doesn’t necessarily mean they will grow up to be aggressive. Experts describe early childhood as the “hitting phase,” a common behavior among children aged 1 to 2 years.
According to Parents, here are the reasons toddlers hit:
A Lack of Empathy and Understanding
At this age, children do not realize the impact of their actions on others. The full development of empathy typically occurs around the age of three.
Communication Difficulties
Limited language skills prevent children from expressing their emotions with words, leading them to use hitting as a way to convey frustration or needs.
Defending Their Possessions
Aggressive behavior can arise when children try to protect their toys or personal space, especially during group play.
Imitating Others
Children tend to mimic what they observe, including aggressive behavior, without understanding its consequences.
Child’s Temperament
A child’s nature influences their behavior. Some children are more sensitive or reactive, making it harder for them to control their emotions in certain situations.
Effective Ways to Prevent Toddlers from Hitting:
- Address the behavior immediately.
- Understand the reason behind the behavior.
- Plan ahead to avoid problems.
- Encourage positive behavior.
- Teach problem-solving skills.
